The Outsider Who “Heard”…

 

 

Shalom from Yoel and Orly, founders

of Ulpan-Or, the International Center
for Hebrew and Israeli Culture Studies.

 

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These days, Orly and I are in Los Angeles, immersed in an inspiring and thought-provoking UED (Unpacked for Educators) Conference, hosted in the beautiful home of Temple Sinai Congregation.

 

Over intense and meaningful conversations with educators, school leaders, and Israel-studies professionals from across North America, one theme kept returning again and again: Hebrew is not a “nice add-on” to Israel education—it is its beating heart.

 

Amid the rigorous and thoughtful discussions, I even managed to steal a few quiet moments to sit at the piano and let the music breathe.

 

 

We spoke about how language shapes identity, how Hebrew opens an authentic window into Israeli culture, history, media, and values, and how Israel studies without Hebrew often remain abstract, distant, and fragile.

 

Time and again, we saw that when students encounter Israel through Hebrew—even at a basic, accessible level—the connection becomes personal, emotional, and lasting.

 

In many ways, these conversations felt like a modern echo of Torah portion Yitro itself (read this Shabbat):

the realization that revelation, meaning, and covenant do not remain theoretical—they must be heard, internalized, and lived.

 

 

Torah portion Yitro is this week, and we relive Matan Torah—(Receving of the Torah) – the moment the Jewish story becomes a covenantal mission.

 

But the plot twist is unforgettable:

The Torah places Yitro (Jethro)—a Midianite priest, an “outsider,” a spiritual seeker—right before Sinai. Because sometimes the most important preparation for revelation is not thunder… but listening, humility, and good counsel.

 

And there’s another layer that’s especially meaningful in Israel today: the Druze community reveres Yitro—identified with Prophet Shuʿayb / נבי שועייב—as a central prophetic figure, and his shrine near Tiberias is considered their holiest site, with an annual pilgrimage. 

 

Yitro’s Greatness Begins with One Verb: “He Heard”

The Torah opens Yitro’s entrance with a single word that changes history:

 

שמות / Exodus 18:1 

וַיִּשְׁמַע יִתְרוֹ כֹּהֵן מִדְיָן חֹתֵן מֹשֶׁה אֵת כָּל־אֲשֶׁר עָשָׂה אֱלֹהִים לְמֹשֶׁה וּלְיִשְׂרָאֵל עַמּוֹ…

 

 

Jethro, the priest of Midian, Moses’ father-in-law, heard all that God had done for Moses and for Israel His people…

 

 

 

Then comes Yitro’s moral clarity:

שמות / Exodus 18:21 

 

וְאַתָּה תֶחֱזֶה מִכָּל־הָעָם אַנְשֵׁי־חַיִל יִרְאֵי אֱלֹהִים אַנְשֵׁי אֱמֶת שֹׂנְאֵי בָצַע

 

 

But you shall choose from all the people capable men who fear God—men of truth, who hate unjust gain…

 

 

 Sinai: A Covenant That Shapes the Whole Year

 

Before the Ten Commandments, God frames the mission:

שמות / Exodus 19:4–6 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

And then—revelation:

שמות / Exodus 19:16 

וַיְהִי בַּיּוֹם הַשְּׁלִישִׁי בִּהְיֹת הַבֹּקֶר… קֹלוֹת וּבְרָקִים וְעָנָן כָּבֵד עַל־הָהָר…

 

 

 

שמות / Exodus 20:1–2 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 The Hidden Bridge to Purim: Coercion… and Love

 

Our sages – CHAZAL highlight a powerful idea:

 

At Sinai there is a tradition that the moment contained an element of coercion (“held the mountain over them”), creating the question: can commitment be fully real if it was pressured?

 

And then comes Purim, where the verse says:

“קִיְּמוּ וְקִבְּלוּ הַיְּהוּדִים” — “The Jews established and accepted…” (Esther 9:27)

Chazal read this as: in the days of Achashverosh, we “re-accepted” Torah willingly—out of love, not thunder.

 

 

 A Contemporary Lens: Why “Chosen Commitment” Is
 Stronger Than Pressure

 

Modern psychology repeatedly finds what Torah hints at:

Self-Determination Theory (Edward Deci & Richard Ryan) shows that when people feel autonomy, competence, and connection, motivation becomes deeper and more lasting.

(See: Deci & Ryan, “Self-Determination Theory,” and Deci’s Why We Do What We Do.)  

 

Daniel Pink popularized this for workplaces: autonomy, mastery, purpose drive sustained engagement. (Pink, Drive.)  

 

Viktor Frankl reminds us that meaning transforms suffering into mission. (Frankl, Man’s Search for Meaning.)*

 

 

 A Chassidic Story: The Loudest Revelation Is Sometimes
 Silence

 

 

 

 

 

It is interesting to note the in Hebrew the root  דבר

“DAVAR” is the same one for the following words:
 

• Desert – miDBAR – מדבר
• Speak – meDABER – מדבר
• Word / Thing – DAVAR – דבר
• Commandment – DIBER – דבר
• Ten commandments – ASERET HADIBROT – עשרת הדברות

 

It implies that when a person is in a desert (miDBAR) – remote from obstruction of “noises” of the daily life, he can then be exposed to the real WORD (DAVAR), absorb and internalize it.  

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Modern vibe: A nation whose job is to represent values—through how we speak, work, argue, and care.   

 

 

 

 A Note for This Moment: The Yitro–Druze Echo in Israel
 Today

 

Yitro is not only a Torah figure; he is also a living symbol in the region. The Druze community’s reverence for Yitro (as Nabi Shuʿayb) is a reminder that faith can create shared moral language even across communities

 

 “Segulot” and Practical Deeds for Shabbat Yitro

 

Different communities have different customs—so take these as gentle, practical kabbalot (commitments) for this Shabbat:

 

 Closing Thought

 

 

 

Shabbat Shalom,

 

Yoel & Orly